[KSUViolet06]

Not really trying to be a Debbie Downer, but in her original post, she mentioned something about being engaged and and having financial concerns:

Originally Posted by purpleskies

I have been engaged for a few months, am currently in university, and am unsure how long i am going to stay in school. my fiancee wants to get married in 3 years, only problem is money (right now, haven't got my career figured out, and my fiance does not have any money saved yet. so i was wondering, do you think it is a mistake to be engaged if you have doubts about finances. i was at the time, a little surprised that he proposed, but i do love him a lot and said yes. i am hoping if i stay engaged, that finances will change in a few years, and how would you approach discussing with your partner about saving money/paying off debts.

If you're seriously doubting someone's finances I would *think* that a couple would want to figure out suff like this before they made anymore concrete plans.