[dekeguy]

Tom,
If we are judged by our friends, she goes to God with the best of recommendations.
If we are judged by our deeds. she need only point to her boys.
I grieve for your loss but I am glad that you had the wonderful opportunity to know such a special lady.
The old latin phrase "orate fratres" seems specially appropriate.
I shall pray for her and for those who feel the loss of her.