I will allow them to stroll for entertainment purposes at their parties...it gives those kids who are not members something to aspire to do in the future. I have kids in the 9th grade who say, "when I become a Junior, can I fill out an application?" So I tell them to make sure they have good grades and no discipline issues, and when the time comes, they can interview.
But I also tell my boys that Kappa League is a leadership program. They are there to be leaders and do community service. Once you graduate, that is it. It is beneficial in the fact that when we take college visits, when they meet the Bruhs, they already know faces on those campuses should they decide to attend.
But all the excess stuff that Bruhs do are off limits....
