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Originally Posted by C_Robbins88
The girl in my place last year didnt do anything, and everyone says that. I am doing a points system, but its not seeming to help, and everytime that i have planed a sisterhood event no one comes. What is a "Lovie"?
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Lovies are when you build groups of 3 girls that normally don't hang out with eachother, and they have to do something together, either plan an event, or hang out. Often times they hang out cause we dont have THAT meny events. But, basically, you put three girls from different cliques together and they go do something like dinner, or bowling, or just chill and watch TV together. It helps break up the cliqus and make everything run smoother cause you're actually FRIENDS with more girls, and not just sisters who wear the same letters. You find you have more in common with girls that you never knew. Or you learn cool things about them. Like, I knew a girl for over a year.... never knew her parents were from germany, and she's the only one in her family not born in germany. Made me realize why certain things were important. Anyway.... It helps girls break the ice with newer members, and relieve tension if there was a problem in the past, they can get over it now and just hang out. It helps.