[purpleskies]

I have been engaged for a few months, am currently in university, and am unsure how long i am going to stay in school. my fiancee wants to get married in 3 years, only problem is money (right now, haven't got my career figured out, and my fiance does not have any money saved yet. so i was wondering, do you think it is a mistake to be engaged if you have doubts about finances. i was at the time, a little surprised that he proposed, but i do love him a lot and said yes. i am hoping if i stay engaged, that finances will change in a few years, and how would you approach discussing with your partner about saving money/paying off debts.