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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel
Pretty much that is where I am. What I plan to do for a living requires me to be in remote places for extended periods of time, often forming friendships with people of the opposite sex and being in close quarters with them. If a man doesn't trust me or respect my independence, he isn't going to be my man. That was a huge reason why my engagement ended, he couldn't handle me being gone and since we were together all the time before that the jealousy and controlling behavior never showed itself.
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Maybe it's not so much of controlling behavior as it is fear or a need to fill in the emptiness.
That's is another problem with us as humans and not just men. Your mate will be gone for extended periods and around the opposite sex. How does one cope with that unless both of your careers parallel causing the both of you to do the same. I think, and I could be wrong, this may be a part of why some military marriages either succeed or fail based on who gets left behind and how they cope with it.
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