Cheerful---
As long as I have seen AGDee's posts, this is just her reality and her path in her life. So what, her marriage experience was less that to be desired for her? That is all it is...
She MIGHT get married again...
But for her right now, her issues are about respecting her space... That's all, no more, no less...
My marriage has not been rosy either. There have been times I got fed up just like AGDee. I just chose how significant my relationship to my husband is to me. She just chose differently--'cuz hey, fortunately, she's not me... But, I do respect her for what she is saying and from that all of us can learn...