1. To be honest, I'd have to PRAY for the guidance (and strength) of the Lord on that one, because I wouldn't know WHAT to do! My mother is re-married, and though I love my step-father with all my heart, I naturally have a stronger sense of commitment to her than to him. It would really hurt me to have to tell him myself- I'd hate to betray her; but on the other hand, I love him dearly and would hate to see him wronged. I'd definitely do all that was in my power to convince her to tell him before I took the initiative to tell him myself. But all in all, he would have to find out one way or the other, because I'd refuse to live with the lie. I don't think she's be able to live with the lie either.
I finally have an answer.... I think.
2. I've looked at this question both ways: If I were the one left living because the other person pushed the botton before I got to it, I'd live the rest of my life in guilt for not having pushed the botton first. And depression would set in because I'd miss them so much. On the other hand, if I pushed the botton myself, I'd leave the other person with these feelings to battle. It's a hard call, but I don't think anything would keep me from pushing the botton first, no matter the age of the other person. This is such a morbid question!!!
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