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Originally Posted by AZPPL
I feel like I'm betraying my first little by taking this other. I love my first little so very much. I don't want her to feel shunned like I did (my Big had a Little before me and I was a little jealous of her).
Any suggestions for this?
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I think it's not that your big had a little before you, rather that she wasn't able to successfully juggle the 2 of you to make you both feel on equal footing. Learn from her mistake.
Is your little taking a little? If not, why can't she be the one to take this girl instead? That was basically what happened w/ my 2 little and I.
If your little is also taking a little, just try doing things together, all 4 of you.