Is this a new thing for littles to be offended by their bigs taking a second little? In my chapter, it used to always be an honor if you were to have more than one little, and the littles couldn’t be happier to have “twins”. This year, though, the girls who already have littles are saying, “I don’t want my little to be offended if I take another one...” (and are refusing to take one because of this), and some of the littles want to be their big’s ONLY little.
I don’t know, but to me, this is kind of selfish. And kind of weird. I always love seeing my family tree grow, no matter how it happens. And if this one new member wants you as her big, and you’d be willing to do that for her, I don’t see what the problem is.
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