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I rushed, spring 07, fall 07, COB Fall 07, got my bid, and then participated in Spring 08 rush (even though I had an open bid)
Why'd I keep coming back? I fell in love with the ladies of DphiE. They didn't take me the first time, because a sister, her boyfriend and I had a ... incident that caused drama. Though the sister had forgiven me and she and I had started a friendship out of everything, the sisterhood could not forgive me. It took me showing the sister hood I had grown and matured.
But, I also took the initiative to attend multiple philanthopy and fundraising events while I was still wanting to join. I spoke with the deephers on a regular occasion. I was friends with these girls before I was a sister, and that helped. Some sisters, yes, are still mad at the past events, but the more htey get to know me, and the more they see my dedication, the more htey see I am a good sister.
I say keep trying if you love them for the right reasons. But, you have to show them how you, as an individual is still growing and maturing outside of being in the greek system. You can grow and mature as a person, as a woman and you dont NEED them, you just WANT them.
I hope that helps :-D
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