If you've been dating over a year, then I'd at least offer to help pay. But 3 miles over the limit? How much did it come out to? It can't be that much, can it?

If he was some guy you just met or haven't been dating that long, I wouldn't offer.

My BF and I have been together over a year and he's managed to get parking tickets and a car towed. I've helped him as best as I could afford, especially when times were tight.