[AOII Angel]

Wow...it will be hard for any of us to advise you on how to accept members to your own organization. Do you usually let the president override the desires of the rest of the chapter? If you personally think that your sisters should give this girl another shot, maybe set up some smaller one on one activities with this girl. I would, however, not just give this girl a bid out of pity. You don't want her to feel like she isn't wanted around since technically she isn't! If you feel strongly, make an effort to get your sisters to look again, but don't force her on them!