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Old 02-09-2009, 04:42 PM
TSteven TSteven is offline
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Originally Posted by GammaDelt View Post
I'm the president of a local sorority, and we don't have recognized Greek life on our campus. For rush, we have several events, and then we invite girls back to invitational, and then we hand out bids. This year it looks like everyone is a great fit, except for one. The sisters say they feel uncomfortable around her, but I would feel uncomfortable not giving her a bid, especially because she is overweight. I feel like not many of the sisters have talked to her much - most of them are saying they just get bad vibes. I'm unsure what to do in this situation. Although she is very quiet, I think she would be more open with us after we've spent more time getting to know her. Any outside insight?
If possible, ask your sisters to explain what they mean by "bad vibes". Is it because she picks her teeth with a switch blade? Or perhaps that there has been little communication between the sisters and her.

ETA: I guess I am a slow typist cause I didn't see your reply KSUViolet06 when I started.

Last edited by TSteven; 02-09-2009 at 04:44 PM. Reason: slowness
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