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It is time to stop being a victim and put forth some effort. If you have a house, there will be some television program that most of the girls will gather to watch on a regular basis. Go over to the house on that night and introduce yourself; then relax and enjoy the show. Stay afterward when the program ends and mingle. If your school has a basketball team, try to join/gather a group of sisters and new members for the game. There are many ways for you to start forging a bond.
There were obviously enough women who wanted you as a sister to extend a bid. However, unless it is a really small chapter, you have met only a small number of sisters. You need to take responsibility here and make sure you go to events, dinners, socials and just casual get-togethers to get to know others in the chapter.
Stop waiting for members to come to you. You have to be approachable. If the recruitment is as competitive as you say, waiting a year may not be an option for you. Your decision will be whether you want to be part of a sisterhood or not.
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