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ED- Im curious in what sense the one temp big was rude to you would you be able to explain.
I had a bad experience with my two temp bigs I had before I actually got my real big. Neither of them bothered to hang out with me or anything when I had them and then the one dropped out of taking a little when we lost some of our new girls. I immediately thought that since they didnt hang out with me they didn't like me. I ranked the one temp big I had left at the bottom of my list for bigs. MY MISTAKE! It ended up that her and I were really close not necessarily in the big/little sense but we always hung out with each other and towards the end of pledging when my grandmother past away she was there to comfort me and she told me how she lost a grandparent when she pledged too.
Also, throughout my new member period I really felt like a loner whether it be with my pledge sisters or the actual sisters. It wasn't until the end of the semester that I really made the connections of a sisterly bond with my now sisters.
If you look around on this website I am sure you will read this several times. Sisterhood isn't an instantaneous bond. It's something that has to be cultivated and worked at and then over time it will strengthen and you will see the true beauty of it
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