Welcome to GC..
Here's some really honest advice. I hope you can appreciate it:
Your feelings are not unusal, and there are times when girls are going to feel this way after recruitment.
However, if you are going to be happy in your new sorority, this is something you're going to have to get over.
As long as you keep thinking of what would have been, with Sorority A, you are NEVER going to enjoy yourself.
Think of it this way, the sorority that you got a bid to is one that WANTS YOU and WANTS TO GET TO KNOW YOU. Sorority A did not extend you a bid. Sorority B did. That means something.
So give them a fighting chance to get to know you and stick around. You obviously can't change anything now.
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"Remember that apathy has no place in our Sorority." - Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi
Lakers Nation.
Last edited by KSUViolet06; 02-07-2009 at 02:58 AM.
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