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You gave fine advice ... she's just got to stay active and get involved with the chapter (not just her Phi class). Just because her Phi class fractured into subgroups following initiation, there is no reason not to hang out with pledge class friends in the different sub-groups. It sounds to me like she may need to get out of her comfort zone (hanging with the Phi class) and begin to meet and feel comfortable around more of the chapter members. She may want to think back to why she joined in the first place ... was it the other PNMs in the room that convinced her to join or the initiated members who were recruiting her? Personally, I agree with your suggestion of getting involved on a committee or chair up an event to gain some leadership experience and become more involved with the general membership.
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