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Honestly, maybe it wasn't the tent talk but something else. You mentioned in your first post that she didn't really know much about the other groups. Well, then maybe a) she found another chapter randomly that completely fit her personality or b) she released you guys because she wants to join a sorority where she doesn't know anybody to make new friends.
Case in point, one of my best friends at school was rushing my sophomore year, and I was ECSTATIC about this girl. I spread her name everywhere, the way she talked she was completely set on us, I counted her as a closer friend than nearly all of my pledge class, etc. I even had some Big/Lil clues picked out. She was at our pref and imagine my surprise when she ended up at our biggest rival!!!
I was secretly taking "bawling breaks" all through bid night (which was stupid because all of my other rush crushes were in our pledge class) and felt so betrayed. But when we talked, she said that she loved our chapter but in the end wanted to start her own thing with a new "big sister" she had never met, new friends she had never met (she had met most of my sisters already), etc. I know it wasn't a "status" related cut because she preffed our biggest competitor (sounds like a Minerva/Venus relationship) and our return rates were virtually identical during that recruitment.
Anyways, what I'm saying is have a little venting break, but a) assume she had the best of intentions, b) know that she genuinely likes you as people and c) focus on all those other hot little PNMs you are rushing! Good luck, I'm excited for you!
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