[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by alphagamzetagam

I know you're hurt, but try not to hold it against her. Remember, recruitment isn't just about you guys getting new members, it's about women finding a chapter that they can call home.

Very true. I am sure that you wouldn't want Kelly to reutrn to your chapter if she genuinely wanted to go back elsewhere but was just coming back (for example) because she has friends in your chapter and wouldn't want to hurt your feelings.

Also, recruitment is a whirlwind. I'm sure you guys are meeting PNMs and changing your opinions about them. Just as you guys do that, the PNMs also change opinions of chapters throughout the process. It's not that she betrayed you, because I don't believe she meant to hurt your feelings by not returning there, she just may have connected better with another chapter. It doesn't necessarily means she hates you guys or anything like that.