GreekChat is great because it can help PNMs prepare for rush.

On the other hand, GreekChat has its down side in that it might create unnecessary worrying on the PNM's (and sometimes parents') part. Just because things might seem cutthroat and serious on some campuses, doesn't mean it's like that on yours.

To the PNMs, focus on the things that you CAN control -- your grades, activities, personality even. Don't sweat the things that you CANNOT -- rankings, software, membership selection. You can ask all the questions you want, but even if you get answers, you won't fully understand them anyway. It's not worth it to clutter your mind with things that boggle even the members on the other side.