Sphinxpoet,
A woman should not have to demand any chivalry from a man. These are things that I expect from men when I am out on a date or just a general stranger. It also should not be a control factor when it comes to men on how to treat a woman.
I am a lady so therefore, treat me as such. These are just common general manners. When I see a gentleman that does not act accordingly I call them on it. These are things you are suppose to do. These are not things to be withheld for the special someone in your life.
I should not have to tell a man, “Open the door for me or pull my chair,” etc.
JMHO