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Originally Posted by Quicksilver22
I've talked to a couple of the brothers that I got to know especially well, and they seem to want to stay in touch, and still want me to go to their parties. Hopefully that's a good sign.
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If you know a few of the brothers especially well, can you ask them why they think you didn't get a bid? They can't tell you what goes on in member selection, but they might feel comfortable with a simple "I think not enough of the guys knew you" or something.
When you look at the chapter members, is there anything they seem to have in common that you don't? I remember at my school the ASA's had a lot of (gorgeous) dance majors, so me and my pre-med major probably wouldn't have fit in well there no matter HOW bad I wanted in.