[hopeful2008]

hi guys,

im a freshman rushing at a university with not too many sororities but a lot of girls this year (think 1 sorority for roughly 40 rushees)

i went to both of meet and greet events, and i just went through one formal rush party yesterday...now that i think of it, even though i asked many open ended questions and tried my best in active listening, im still afraid that my conversation was quite conventional.

i don't think i said anything that impressed/made a lasting and individual impression at any of the parties, and i dont personally know any girls in any groups

im usually quite outgoing and open, but the fact that i was talking with all those other girls in the same room was just quite intimidating. i only have one more formal party left before pref, and i would really really appreciate any tips in how to make a lasting impression during those parties (we only have around 30 minutes in each sorority) how many people should i talk to? should i go for as many people as i can?

what kind of questions can i ask about? i searched the forum and read a few posts. i know open ended questions are the best, but is there any specific quesitons that really made an impression for you guys?


thank you so much!