but why should we have to demand that men show us chivalry? Why cannt they give it when they have that first interaction. I disagree in a way because I think that if a guy calls himself a man then chivalry should be a part of his character as a man!!! True if a woman first meets a man that shows no chivalry why should she ask him to change six months into the relationship. If she doesnt like how he is when she first meets him then either she should demand that he shows her that level of respect and attention or just walk away and leave him alone