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Generally people that are gossipy and backstabbers are only like that because they have never had to face the consequences of their actions. i. e. no one ever calls them on it.
As a side note I have found that women sometimes are liklely to provoke a really intense confrontation (emotionally) and make a scene that many men would not . .. because we were taught to fear the potentially violent repercussions. Women are rarely threatened with violence in today's society.
Anyway, make sure you call her on it. If you don't you are just reinforcing the idea its ok.
Get a couple of your friends to back you up also.
Good luck . . . oh, don't fear her reaction either . . people that are backstabbers fear confrontation . . otheerwise they would be mean to your face.
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