I'm so sorry to hear about your chapter!
I know that desire to have a full collegiate experience but there are a lot of things you can do when alum, like attend Convention, join an alum club...but it isn's quite the same, you're right.
What is recruitment like on your campus? Are there other groups that you would consider joining?
It is a very hard decision, but sounds like you're going to have to decide whether it's the fraternity or the experience you'd want most. I love Pi Phi and of course would love to have you as a sister, but it may be worthwhile to try again.
I think that fraternity life is ultimately what you make it...if you put in 100% you'll get it back three-fold. So figure out if you'll be able to do that for another organization. Once you figure that out, the other answers should follow.
Hope this helps a little!
In Pi Phi,
cherub
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