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I think that it is a personal choice and that none of it should be done based on what is liely a predictor of this or that. Any relationship is going to require work at allstages. It is a matter of what are you willing to put in to it. Do whatever is right for you. In any circumstance all you can do is what you feel is best and right for you at the time, not anyone else.
I have read a lot of interesting points and opinions on the board so far. Every situation is unique and you can always find a situation that supports a given view. Of the poeple who have replied, how many have lived any of this? OF the no living together viewpoints, how many have gotten married after not living together? How would you describe that experience? How many have gotten married after living together? How would you describe that experienc? Just curious since many are speculating I wondered what those who lived it have to say. (I know some hve already shared their personal experinces)
For the record, I am currently living with my long time boyfriend. No we are not engaged.
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