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It could be phermones, like someone said. It can also be a "ying yang" thing as well. My husband and I are quite different in many ways, but are similar in the ways that really count - we have the same sense of humor, we are both very honest (sometimes brutally honest, but it works for us), we share the same morals, we share similar lifestyle goals (including money), and look out for each other.
Over time, we grew to enjoy some of each others' interests. I think that another person's passion for something can be contagious. It makes you want to figure out why they like it so much.
If you enjoy only the physical chemistry (and I don't just mean sex), make sure you let her know. By your bestowing all this attention on her, I can guarantee that she is reading a lot more into it than you may be intending. And your first sentence, that you think she fancies you TOO, makes me wonder if you are trying to dissect things too much.
I suggest you spend some time thinking about what you really want from her, and make sure that she wants the same from you. Otherwise, let her go sooner than later.
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