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Originally Posted by chicky3829
they wont pay for the sorority.. they will help me pay for my housing.. they didnt want me to join the sorority in the first place but now with different financial stuff that has been going on they cant afford to help me out with the sorority anymore..before they were helping out reluctantly because they knew it was something i initially wanted to do
and there are other reasons im dropping out but i dont think it would be smart to share it on a public forum when it concerns my sorority and only my sorority..money is a MAJOR factor but there is a ton of other factors playing into this.. not just money..
i know that is super vague and everyones gonna be like "we cant give u advice if u dont tell us the whole story" blah blah but i cant tell you it because it wouldn't be right to do that.. so sorry..
i think i have gotten what i needed out of this thread though so thanks to everyone who replied!
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I figured there was something more to it. If you're leaving because of hurt feelings, go ahead and tell everyone now. If you wait until the semester is over and dissappear, you will not be leaving on good terms with the sisters you still want to remain in contact with. At least with some warning maybe some will understand and you can salvage friendships.