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Originally Posted by chicky3829
this has all been great advice.. but i really honestly cannot afford it so i dont need advice on how to TRY and afford it. i can't afford it. simple as that. what i was asking advice on is when i should let the chapter know that i will be dropping out...
thanks..
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Honestly, I'd be kind of pissed either way. I'd probably get over it faster if they were upfront right away about it than if they played along all semester like they were staying in and then announced they weren't coming back at the end.
And you might even talk to them about dropping out now and seeing if they'll refund a portion of your money so you can start saving again because it's going to be hella expensive living on your own.
I'm kinda thinking that money is just the excuse you're using (maybe even to yourself) and you're really dropping for other reasons. If you really wanted to stay in, you'd figure out a way.
ETA: is it just the sorority your parents won't help pay for? Would they help out with your housing (dorm or apartment) otherwise?