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Originally Posted by chicky3829
yea the dues are that much money.. it would be half that but they forget to mention we have housing dues and stuff to send to nationals.. furnishing fees and all that which doesn't make sense.. i think they are just putting a label on sending them a ton of money because i dont see how we have to pay that much money just to maintain the house.. esp when i dont even live in it..
and to reply to zeta13girl, i don't have a job because i have a full courseload so theres no way i could maintain a job and keep getting the good grades i get.. plus my sorority doesnt understand if u have a job - they expect you to work around wat the sorority requires you to do.. it stinks!
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I am confused by this statement. If you have to pay housing dues and all that, isn't it often cheaper to live in the house? Not only is your housing paid for, but ALL of your food as well. Trust me, living in an apartment is a lot more expensive than you think. I don't think a lot of people take into account the fact that when theyre in dorms/a house, its one amount.
You don't have to worry about whether the electricity/gas/cable/water/trash/internet/phone bill is going to be outrageous this month. And food prices are insane right now. You will easily spend 200-300 a MONTH on food alone.
Not to mention the TIME that you save by living in a house and not having to worry about making food, paying these bills, etc. It gives you that much more time for a part time job. You said you can't make all that money in the summer to pay dues, but what about working part time during the year too? Even 10 hours a week makes a huge difference.
AND- it is completely possible to have a job, be in a sorority, and get a 4.0. I've seen it done MANY TIMES. I myself work 30 hours a week, maintain a 3.5 for an academic scholarship, and pay for everything except tuition on my own. I am telling you, if you want it bad enough- it's possible.
I REALLY think you need to sit down with your advisers, e-board, whoever, ASAP, and explain to them your situation. MAKE them give you an exact budget- every chapter should have this. (on a side note, do you know if your chapter assesses? sp?) Then sit down and look at rents for your area, along will average bill prices. I'd be willing to bet you find its a better deal to live in the house.
You've gotten a lot of good advice here- so listen to it. There is always a way for you to stay involved and if you simply can't find one- obviously you don't really care as much about the organization as you claim.