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Short answer -
- Yes, the pnm's preferences are the first consideration at bid match. But the chapter's bid lists PLUS the pnm's preferences are what will determine the ultimate outcome.
- NO - suiciding does not increase the chance she will match with that chapter.
There are several excellent threads here on bid matching - I'm running out the door in a minute or I would find them for you. Search, or perhaps another GCer can suggest some threads.
I am sorry things did not work out better for your daughter.
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