I thought was a good artcle. One of my chapter sisters is also gay, and she went a long time without telling us about her sexuality during her pledge period. When she finally told us, we were all like, "so what?" And she was really relieved and happy to know that we accepted her no matter what. She's an alum now, but she still comes out to support whenever she can.
Needless to say, her line name ended up being "Ms.Sterious"
Go figure!