I think I would calmly (when you're NOT upset) tell her that you have told her repeatedly that you believe her boyfriend is not trustworthy and that she should dump him so you fail to understand why she continues to bring it up to you. Let her know that your opinion of him in all this time has not changed, you believe she should dump him and that there is nothing else to discuss. Make this your mantra with her and if she doesn't get it then, tell her that you are making the topic of her boyfriend off limits and that you will only talk to her if she agrees to that.
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