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Originally Posted by GreenEyedGirl27
Wow. You guys are some of the rudest people I've ever encountered. It's not like I'm too busy for them. One, we don't have a house so I can't go there to hang out with people. Two, I have to go to the doctor once a month early on a Saturday and it just so happens that the mixers are always that Friday night, when I have to go home to go to the doctor early the next morning. And they are not planned months in advance, we get the dates maybe 2 weeks in advance. If everyone in greek life is as rude as you people, then it's better I leave.
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No one is being rude. They're telling you that if you want friends in your sorority, you have to reach out and show friendship first. I don't think thats rude, I think thats good advice. You may not have a house, and its understandable that you can't make mixers (as long as they know why), but how hard is it to pick up the phone and ask one of your sisters to have lunch or coffee with you? And how hard is it to ask someone to go to a party with you on one of the nights where you don't have an early doctors appointment? I'm sorry, but they're right, you need to reach out. Telling you so was for your own benefit, not to be rude.