[Kevin]

This is like that passive-aggressive people do when they're dating to 'test' the relationship, i.e., don't call them or communicate to see if they'll initiate communication, even though the accepted norm in the relationship is that you are the one who initiates things.

Greek life is not unlike most things -- you get out of it what you put into it. Maybe it's not for you.... the internet is a bad place to look for advice though.

The situation really isn't that complicated. If you think you'd be happier if you quit, then you're probably right.