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It sounds like you've been intiated, but haven't really 'joined' your sorority in the sense of really being involved. The benefits of membership aren't given out for free; they have to be earned through participation. It's been my experience that official events like mixers or semi-formals are planned well enough in advance that unless your personal social life is that busy that your own calendar books up months ahead of time, there really shouldn't be any reason why you can't make time for your sorority. Besides, since you've described all your sisters as really nice, I can't imagine it would take more than the tinest bit of effort to develop lasting friendships with them. Good luck to you.
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