Originally Posted by libramunoz
And again, I say, what is your point? You are constantly comparing your husbands lack of bedroom skills to his organization. They have nothing to do with nothing! If he was bad in bed beforehand, that's YOUR problem and issue! Again, it has nothing to do with his organization.
If he has a zest and zeal for KAP, then great and wonderful for him. But your constant complaining about his lack of bedroom skills is again, YOUR problem. Why bring it to the DST forum? Each has NOTHING, and I mean absolutely NOTHING to do with the other. We are NOT Kappas, we're Delta's--get it straight and get some marriage counseling or some sex therapy, or get a Kama Sutra to help SOLVE you and your husbands bedroom problems! Simple and end of discussion or better yet, learn how to use something to spice up the bedroom and quit complaining about it where no one can do what YOU want them to do about it. Or here's a better suggestion, learn how to SOLVE your own problems and chill out!
The simple heart of the matter is that homeboy had problems and issues WWWWAAAAYYY before he joinede KAP. You and homeboy need to sit down and talk about those habits and if you don't wanna talk about them, then get counseling, get a job, get out of the house, or just plain and simple, get a life and move on. If not, then stop complaining about it and look at what YOUR behaviors are that ARE obviously contributing to the problems that you have in YOUR marriage. Learn how to make it a PERSONAL issue, and stop making it a Delta/Kappa issue.
Now you say, "My point is, don't believe the hype. Kappa/Que/Sigma/Alpha/Iota/Mason membership is not a magical form of Viagra." Ain't nobody believing that BUT YOU! You obviously got duped from jump street. Again, THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM, not a problem of DST!
So let me make it plain and simple for you, a) you got duped by a man--wow, b) you and him don't have good sex--buy the Kama Sutra or the Joy of Sex, c) you're trying to gain sympathy from women that are thinking that you are an absolute dolt right now and it ain't working for you--join another group that can more easily relate to being a wife/gf of a fraternity member not DST!
Is this more clear for you, hope so!
You also say, "You are who you are, letters or not," and obviously YOU'RE NOT!
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