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Originally Posted by fantASTic
I understand your hurt and sadness, but remember that these actives have CHOSEN you! They see something in you and want you to come back, so try to see something in them. Don't rule out Frosted Wheat because of the rumor mill - you yourself said that you had great conversations. Sleep on it and you will feel better in the morning - shock can upset anyone.
I wish I could give you a big hug right now!
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I think this is excellent advice. Remember what some of the IU girls have said here - all the the houses there provide the members with a great Greek experience. After all the effort you have put into preparing for recruitment, you really owe it to yourself to finish it out. Otherwise you might always wonder, "What if?"
I don't know if you read the thread I started about "When did you KNOW?" but some of the women who shared their stories didn't know until preference, after preference, or even after their bid came. I really encourage you to finish it out and see what happens. You have NOTHING to lose by finishing and the potential to gain a lot.
Perhaps you will be one of the women who helps unleash the potential of one of these chapters.