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I had a similar situation arise when I went through recruitment. I was told by my rec writer that I would be invited back but was cut after first round. As far as I know, how girls with recs are treated depends on the sorority and the chapter.
If your daughter goes where I think she does, the deferred recruitment means recs largely give actives a "head's up" about the girl during first semester, rather than being the main source of information about her. Also, the larger chapters are required to cut a certain number of pnms, and it is likely that most pnms have recs at this university, so it would be impossible to invite back every single girl with a rec.
I hope this makes sense and your daughter ends up in the perfect house for her!!!
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