Common ground is clearly the important thing here . . . and, as it turns out, most people are too stupid or self-centered (more precisely, "not self-aware enough") to find anything resembling common ground in a relationship, so it's probably better people just date people they meet at church.
Sure, most of them are startlingly unattractive, but most of us will be unattractive within a decade or two anyway, and you're in it for the long haul, right?
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