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Originally Posted by Tropical_Dancer
The title pretty much says it all. My school is having deferred recruitment and one of the Sorrorities participating is my mom's sorority. I asked about recs and they say they dont use them but should I still have my mom do the legacy form. This sorority I'm really interested in, but I dont want to be the only girl to send in any type of rec forms. What do y'all think?
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What Dee said. Have your mom fill out the form and send it to the chapter.
Just because you might be the only girl to have a form in does not mean you'll get a Scarlet Letter. A rec introduces you to the chapter before rush begins.
As for as "not using recs" - your campus is likely not as competitive as others, and it could very well be that these girls have never received a rec for a PNM before and don't know what to do with them. It happens a lot.