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I'm the kind of person who does a cost benefit analysis, and then decides if the truth is worth it. However if I am thinking I'm not willing to tell them why I don't want to be friends, it is obvious it isn't worth it to me and I just let them go away. If someone has done something heinous I let them know, and to quote The Hills "forgive them and forget them." Forgiving someone doesn't mean they have to be in your life, and maybe cutting people off is harsh, but it really allows me to move on in a healthy manner.
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