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Old 04-05-2002, 10:36 PM
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Originally posted by DELTABRAT
I do agree that (being a part of this society, how can I not) a man should not be bathing his female children beyond a certain age. However, what about cases where he is a single father. It is not always feasible to have auntie come over and show her how to wash, etc., etc.
Exactly!

I posted earlier that my father used to put me in the shower with him when I was about 2 or 3 years old. I believe that is form where the issue of opposite sex parents and children bathing together arose. Although, the posts were not directed towards me, I would be lying if I said that I wasn't the least bit offended by them. For someone to criticize, at least in part, the way I was raised offends me.

A man should not be bathing with his 8 year old daughter. That's too old and can cause some psychological damage. I stated that past the ages of 4 or 5, this type of activity should not be taking place. But, to say not even with a toddler seems a little bit extreme to me. Most toddlers don't know what the difference between boys and girls is at this age.

I wonder what the responses would be if the table were turned. Should a woman not ever bathe with her son?
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