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			Is your chapter small?  My campus has a few fraternities that simply don't have enough members to socialize with.  If all 25 of their members show up and a third of our 140 do, the ratio is still all wrong.  And since the quota/total system means sororities are usually around the same size, that might make you feel "blacklisted."  Just a thought.
 It would be GREAT if you started showing up in large numbers to support sorority philanthropies.  It's so frustrating to spend all that time on an event for a cause we really care about only to find that all of our "friends" in Greek life had better things to do that day.
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