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So you're a sammy at UT, Fall 2008, and your friend's older brother is an active.
sammy doesn't have to big of a pledge class so I'm pretty sure it wouldn't be hard for one of them to figure out who you are. I'm sure they'll be glad to know you were publicly voicing your discontent with them on the internet to strangers, rather than man up and tell them what you don't like, or better yet, try to change them.