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Originally Posted by sherryanne
She is bigger than me, but that's not the point... both of us knew each other before we became roommate, and I don't want this to tear our friendship.
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Did you tell her BEFORE you signed up and made the decision to become roommates (which I'm assuming was last spring) that you didn't want overnight visitors? "The beginning of the year" sounds to me like she walked in the first day in September and you flipped the script. If a person I was friends with did that to me, not only would I be pretty pissed, but I'd probably say forget you and do exactly what your roommate is doing.
You can't just assume someone is going to think and behave the same way you do, even if you were friends with them before.
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Originally Posted by KappaKittyCat
She's breaking an agreement the two of you made.
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Originally Posted by sherryanne
I'll keep this story short. Basically, at the beginning of the year, I told my roommate that no boys are allowed in the room overnight
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That doesn't sound to me like "an agreement the two of [them] made." It sounds like something one person said and expected the other to follow with no compromise or discussion.