[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

^^^A scootch on the personal side, friend.

CG, I'm not saying you do, but I wouldn't take any advice on playing with yourself. That, to me isn't cool. To me, when a joker plays with himself/herself, that's like an implosion of sexual pleasure that focuses a joker further and further into himself/herself. To me, that genuine need for interpersonal intimacy can't be met by self seeking sexual activity. The way I see it, it would be like quenching your thirst with salt water. A sip can satisfy for the moment, but the eventual results aren't good. If a joker masturbates to fix his/her feelings of insecurity and isolation, then to me it would seem like the masturbation would just add to his/her loneliness because he/she isn't receiving true intimacy when he/she does that mess. It's not even a real sexual encounter. I'm sure it probably feels sexual (based on what jokers have told me) but I would think it would actually leave a joker feeling more alone and to me, ashamed, and this is the opposite of what a real sexual encounter (with one person, the same person you're committed to of the "opposite sex" in a monogomous relationship) is supposed to do.

I wouldn't take advice on masturbating, get yourself a nice young man who is pleased, when he knows you are pleased. He is to serve "YOU" in all things....always.

ETA: then you can sing this with great pleasure, loud and clear!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1fSY_S45rZ4