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Originally Posted by MTSUGURL
My boyfriend is ALWAYS late for our plans. I'm not talking 5 minutes, 10 minutes, or even 15 minutes. I'm talking most times it's 1-2 hours. How do I deal with this? I've had people tell me to just leave the house and go somewhere when I've waited 20 minutes, I've had people tell me to just say I don't want to go anymore, and I've had people tell me to just start running on Joey time, meaning don't even start getting ready until it's time for us to leave. Help! I love this man to distraction but this is REALLY irritating me.
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My boyfriend used to do this. I had a couple serious talks with him, telling him that it came across as very selfish and unthoughtful, and that it was embarrassing for me (he would be late for family gatherings). I told him that he needed to seriously work on it or we would be done. That was enough to wake him up, and he's gotten much better. You should talk to him about it.